Free and confidential services for persons affected by domestic violence and sexual assault. What to do about domestic violence
 
The Cedar Valley Friends of the Family "Friends' House" provides shelter, hope, and healing for families affected by domestic violence and sexual assaultSafety planning, anger management and self-esteem issues with children who have witnessed or experienced domestic violence or sexual assaultProject D.A.T.E. is broken down into four sections: domestic violence, healthy vs. unhealthy relationships, sexual assault/date rape, and sexual harassmentThe Turning Point Rural Housing Project works in partnership with existing human service agencies to provide needed support servicesWelcome to Cedar Valley Friends of the Family, A crisis intervention & prevention agencyStop abuse and violence

If you or someone you know needs help, please do not hesitate to call us or e-mail us. Our crisis line is operated by trained advocates 24 hours a day.

Crisis Line:
319-352-0037
or
1-800-410-SAFE

Personal Safety Plan

Step 4: Safety With an Order of Protection
Many battered victims obey protection orders, but one can never be sure which violent partner will obey and whill will violate their protection order. I recognize that I may need to ask the police and the court to enforce my protection order.

The following are some steps I can take to help the enforcement of my Protection Order

1. I will keep my protection order _________________________ (location). Always keep it on or near your person. If you change purses, that's the first thing that should go in.

2. I will give my protection order to police departments in the communities where I usually visit family or friends and in the community where I live.

3. There should be a county registry for protection orders that all police departments can call to confirm a protection order. I can check to make sure that my order is in the registry. The telephone number for the county registry of protection order is ___________________________

4. For further safety if I often visit other counties in Iowa, I might file my protection order with the court in those counties. I will register my protection order in the following counties: __________________________________________________________

5. I can call the local domestic violence program if I am not sure about 2, 3, or 4 above or if I have some problem with my protection order.

6. I will inform my employer _______________________________________ and others on a need to know basis that I have a protection order in effect.

7. If my partner destroys my protection order, I can get another copy from the Clerk of Court in the county where I filed

8. If my partner violates the protection order, I can get the police and report a violation, contact my attorney, call my advocate, and/or advise the court of the violation.

9. If the police do not help, I can contact my advocate or attorney for assistance in filing a complaint with the Chief of the Police Department.

10. I can also file a private criminal complaint with the County Attorney. I can charge my battering partner with a violation of the Order of Protection and all the crimes that he/she commits in violating the order. I can ask the domestic violence advocate to help me with this.

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